Archive for April, 2005

April 30th 2005
Tacos And Two-By Fours

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Beth says the only reason I come down to Mexico is for the fish tacos. That’s not exactly true. They also have really good beef tacos!

I thought of you all today - those of you who have tasted and appreciate the fish and the shrimp taco. I had one in your honor.

We surveyed the second building site today and were pleased by the progress. The house will be for a lady named Rosalva. She has two young children and is the sister of Milo. She finalizes the legal papers on her lot this Monday and is so close to realizing her dream of owning a home.

We met tonight in the home of Lalo and Vicki for a devotional and dinner. There were about 25 people in attendance. We sang, prayed, and the gringo (me) is always expected to present a lesson. We had dinner and afterward we finalized the work plans for the summer.

Javier, Lalo and Milo keep the work going here in Ensenada. Both in a spiritual and physical way. We made our plans, spent some time in prayer and are excited about our new challenges and opportunities for this summer.

If you’ve never been part of a team like this it can be hard to put into words the sense of purpose which comes from building a house for someone else. We can’t wait to get to work.

The believers here live such simple lives and it is always a meaningful experience to be with them. They always want me to teach yet I’m always learning so many valuable lessons from them.

We are looking to cordinate our house-building projects this year between 4 different church groups. This in itself will be a challenge. Your prayers for the success of this effort are appreciated.

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April 28th 2005
Travel Day

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We arrived safely in Mexico and are in the lovely home of our friends Javier and Minerva Camacho. The neat thing about visiting here is that it feels like a second home (without the mortgage payment).

The trip was long, an all day adventure of planes, strains and automobiles. The hard thing about going from the east coast to the west coast is you’ve been up since 4AM arrive here and your body says it’s 10PM when it’s really only 7PM. Everyone wants to stay up and talk and I can’t keep my eyes open. Must be what it’s like for everyone when I’m preaching.

Did I mention we ate at In-N-Out burger? Yes, God is good.

We’ve surveyed our first potential house site in Rosarito. It looks promising. It would be for the sister of the minister of the small church in town. Rosarito is quite close to San Diego so it would make for easy access back and forth from the Airport and of course Home Depot. Nothing quite like smuggling sheet rock compound and foam board into Mexico.

I’m looking forward to one thing right now . . . sleep.

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April 27th 2005
Going Out of Town

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Besides being away from my family the one thing I dislike greatly about going out of town is getting ready to go out of town. Why is it that a million and one things must be done the day before you leave?

It’s not that I wait until the last minute to take care of most things. Yes, I have waited until the night before to undertake a major project. Come on, who out there hasn’t?

Right before leaving for the Yosemite Family Encampment one year, I decided to build a wood cabinet to hold all of our camping and food supplies. Now when I say I waited until the last minute I mean I started building the thing the night before. It gets better. I was doing this in the garage of my in-laws.

Around 10 or 11 at night my mother-in-law came outside in her nightgown and bathrobe and sweetly asked: “Don’t you think it might be time to stop building and use our cabinet instead?” I don’t know about your experiences, but the sight of your mother-in-law in a bathrobe is enough to stop any project! I mean that in the best way possible :-)!

I’m leaving tomorrow for Mexico and then on to the Pepperdine lectures in Malibu. What can I say? The work of the Lord takes us down many different paths. As I have internet access I plan to blog in and update you as to my adventures.

Even though I am not planning to build a cabinet tonight, though I may drop the trany and the motor out of the ‘ol Windstar and give it a tune-up, I’ve still got that sinking feeling that I will not get everything done.

On the other side of the coin, have you ever noticed how much you can actually get done right before you leave on a trip? I mean talk about focused action! The frenetic pace and careful attention to a “to do list” right before you go out of town is quite impressive.

What are your going out of town experiences? How do you get everything done? Or do you even worry about?

I’d write more about this but I’ve really got to get a few more things done.

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April 26th 2005
The Gospel According To Napoleon Dynamite

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I decided to cash in some gift certificates to Blockbuster the other day and Reese asked if we could get the movie Napoleon Dynamite. We have my brother-in-law, Paul, to thank for Reese’s interest in this movie. We bought the movie (a pre-viewed copy) and agreed that we would watch it together so as to talk about any questionable content.

I’m usually hesitant to recommend movies to people I know. Even more hesitant to recommend something to someone who does not know me. The reason for this is I may find something to be funny and you might find it to be something other than funny.

For example, when I was in college my mother came up for a visit and I talked her in to watching the movie Spies Like Us. Let’s just say I had forgotten about a few specific moments of questionable content in the film. (I shall from this point henceforth use the word “film” in honor of my Swiss relatives).

At the risk of offending someone, here are my thoughts about the film Napoleon Dynamite. I’m not going to give you a review of the film so much as the specific ways in which the message of the Gospel was conveyed - intentionally or unintentionally. I’m sure there are others who could better analyze this film. I was struck with the following observations:

The four main characters of this movie are Napoleon, his thirty-something living-at-home older brother Kip, their uncle Rico, and an immigrant student named Pedro. There are other characters weaving in and out of the fabric of this film who have major and minor roles.

Napoleon is everything short of being Dynamite. His last name is an oxymoron as much as jumbo shrimp, tuna fish and country music. He’s the struggling high school kid who is not popular, is not quite coordinated, and finds solace and comfort in a make-believe world.

Kip, his brother, is the typical portrait of a computer geek who lives at home and spends hours in a chat room where he can be more than a “live-at-home-computer-geek.”

As far as Uncle Rico is concerned, Bruce described it best when he sang about those “glory days which pass you by.” Uncle Rico lives in a van (no, not down by the river) and though the year has passed, he continues to re-live 1982.

Pedro is Hispanic, presumably the son of migrant farm workers, dropped into the pool of rural “wonder-bread” America. The challenges and pressures of that situation alone would be significant. Add to the mix that Pedro hardly says a word and you can imagine the uphill battle he faces.

What struck me about this film was the way in which love, acceptance, and forgiveness transformed these characters. The changes we were able to see and the changes we imagined would come about when those whom society normally discards are loved, accepted and forgiven.

Pedro runs for student class president and wins. Kip finds his soul mate in a chat room and is transformed into a hip-hop cool as a cucumber dude. Napoleon discovers the wonderful release of being loved for who he is and not what he thinks he needs to be. And wow, that boy can dance! Uncle Rico, though still quite unable to escape 1982 is apparently forgiven by his long-time girlfriend.

Though I’m not quite sure that Reese fully understood this film, for that matter I’m not quite sure I fully understood the film, I hope he sees the transforming power of love, acceptance and forgiveness.

This is the heart of the message of the gospel: the transforming power of love, acceptance and forgiveness. I hope Reese sees this not only in a film like Napoleon Dynamite but that he sees this in the story of our life together.

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April 25th 2005
They Will Know You By Your Charges

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My American Express card was intercepted in the mail this past week. The only reason I was even aware of the heist was due to an e-mail I received asking me to verify a suspicious charge.

I’m not all that paranoid about purchasing things via the world wide web. I’m not reckless either. But hey, if I can get 3 dozen bead-head wooly buggers in various sizes and colors for only $17.50 (including shipping) what’s a guy to do?

My first thought was that the e-mail I had received was a phishing scam. This is an attempt by a con-artist to get you to divulge your credit card information through a web-site that looks just like the actual website. So, I called American Express to inquire as to the validity of the e-mail and learned that my card had been swiped and was being used in vain.

The friendly customer service representative began to list a few of the attempted charges. She explained how these charges were not consistent with my prior purchasing habits and thus were suspicious and suspected to be fraudulent.

I was relieved and grateful of course and amazed at the software behind the scenes which knew about my spending habits. This amazement was even greater considering that the first attempted charge was from Fredericks of Hollywood. The remaining charge attempts were along that same line.

Aside from all the big brother conspiracies and discussions about groceries stores and video stores tracking your purchases (they do you know?) it was kind of cool knowing they saw that junk and knew it wasn’t me.

Not that they know me personally but I was known by my purchases or better yet by what I didn’t purchase (at least not with that card ever again!).

I wonder what would happen with that kind of purchase history disclosure in other areas of our life? Isn’t that what accountability is all about? Maybe online viewing accountability should extend to our purchase history and habits.

I know this type of disclosure could be abused and used as a means of control. I just think in the long run we would be healthier spiritually, emotionally and physically if someone we loved and trusted knew to ask: “Hey, I saw you purchased 200 cases of twinkies last month. Do we need to talk?”

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April 22nd 2005
“I Can’t Stand The Quiet”

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Here’s another contribution from my friend Danny:

During my four years at Abilene Christian University I was part of a traveling singing group called, “His Singers.” There were sixteen of us in the group and we traveled all over America singing and leading worship.

One of our trips took us through the beautiful states of Arkansas, Tennessee and Kentucky. One night we sang for a church in a small Kentucky town. Following the concert, we divided up into two’s and four’s and went to the homes of our hosts for the evening.

The sun was almost gone, slowly setting behind the beautiful Kentucky hills as we made the 20-minute trip to the home where we would spend the night. It had been a long day of traveling and a fine night of singing. I remember sinking into the car’s comfortable cushions and thinking how beautiful everything was.

The next morning, after a wonderful night of deep, dreamless sleep, I awoke before the others and went out onto the front porch to watch the day begin. We were out in the country. The morning was cool and crisp, the ground was covered with dew, a hazy hint of fog filled the little valley just below the house. I will never forget the sense of peace, the pleasure of the solitude, the quiet of that moment.

I heard the door open and I turned to see our host holding two cups of coffee, one for me and one for her. Struck with the serenity of the setting I said, “I bet you love it out here. I can‚Äôt get over how quiet and peaceful it is.” She shook her head and said, “No, I can’t stand the quiet. I have to keep the radio or the TV on or I’d go nuts.”

Over the last twenty-five years, I’ve thought about that woman and our conversation. I guess, if I’m to be completely honest, I feel sorry for her and her inability to “stand the quiet.” It reminds me of a rarely practiced spiritual discipline called meditation.

Meditation. It brings to mind an image of someone sitting on the floor amid flickering candles and smoldering incense. Legs crossed, eyes closed, they are wearing loose fitting pajamas and they are chanting. Their goal is to empty their mind and become completely detached from the world.

That’s one form of meditation but it‚Äôs not an accurate picture of the practice of Christian meditation. Not even close.

Think of meditation in these terms - listening and obeying. That’s what Christian meditation is all about, being still. Listening for the voice of God and then being faithful to his guidance.

But many of us can’t stand the quiet. Our radios come on as soon as we turn the key in our cars. The TV comes on as soon as we enter the house - because, like that host of twenty-five years ago, we can’t stand the quiet.

Meditation ‚Äì let’s take a run at it. Or, maybe I should say, let’s sit still and give it a try. You see, it’s not about running. It’s about being still. As the Psalmist wrote, ‚ÄúBe still and know that God is God.‚Äù (Psalm 46:10)

And with this knowing, in the stillness and the quiet, be open to his guidance and faithful to his call.

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April 21st 2005
Pain Is Normal?

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I’ve been a little distracted this week. The reason for my distraction is my ankle hurts. I can read the comments now: “That’s it, that’s all you got?” Or, “Come on sissy boy toughen up, why in my day . . .”

It’s not just about the pain in my ankle. I’ve lived with pain in this ankle since 1992. Ah, the summer of 1992, the summer of pain.

Beth and I were just newlyweds. We said our “I do’s” in December of 1991 (shouldn’t I get some kind of points for knowing the date?) and not long after she got her first glimpse of that part about “for worse.”

It was a softball game, I slid into second and through second and my ankle decided to remain in front of second. I’ll spare you the rest of the details. Suffice it to say that I broke some bones and I had to have surgery. I’ve got a plate and quite a few screws as mementoes of the summer of pain.

Fast forward a few years and as the classic film suggests “I got better!” I’ve had minor ongoing soreness ever since, no big deal, get on with life.

Last Thursday I woke up and had swelling and soreness in the ankle for no obvious reason. I hobbled around a few days and Beth finally persuaded me to go see the doctor. I went to see the Doctor for an x-ray. Who knows maybe a screw is coming loose? Yes, I know, I know, more witty comments.

Now back to my distraction and my frustration. The doctor called today and said “everything looks normal.” That’s right my ankle is fine - which is why it still hurts.

Isn’t that just like our life experiences? Everyone says its normal but it still hurts. “It’s natural to feel that way after losing someone you love.” Yes, but it still hurts. “The pain you feel is normal for someone who has gone through what you’ve experienced.” Yes, but it still hurts.

Don’t misunderstand me. I’m not equating the nuisance of ankle pain with the crushing pain of death, loss, or other complicated life situations.

Wouldn’t it be better if in those situations we were not reminded of the normality of our pain but given a remedy? I’m thinking that one of the reasons why we remind ourselves and others that pain in life is normal is because we are not quite sure ourselves what to do about the pain.

I know I’m just one patient in who knows how many. It just would have been nice for the Doctor to have called and said “we didn’t learn why your having the problems but we’re going to try our best to learn why.”

I wonder if we have accepted, by default, that normal naturally means pain?

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April 20th 2005
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Just a quick update on the school bus accident.

Oscar went to the school yesterday and was able to talk with one of the members of the school staff. Turns out this staff member attended here at Arlington a while back.

She acknowledged the present difficulties of the current situation especially in light of impending litigation. She and others are trying to be personally involved in the lives of the family members who lost their daughter and will contact Oscar with details as to how we can help.

Please continue to keep this situation in prayer.

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April 19th 2005
School Bus Accident

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You may or may not have heard or read about a school bus accident in Arlington, Virginia yesterday. The school children are in the same school district as our children but they attend a different school.

Seventeen people were involved in the accident - two adults and fifteen children.

Twelve children were treated and released at a local area hospital. Two children remain hospitalized; one remains in critical condition and one is in serious condition. The drivers remain hospitalized and in critical condition.

Sadly one of the children was killed in the accident.

Since they have not released any names of the injured children we are not sure if we know any of the affected families. We do not know the family of the child who was killed - though the last name is shared by our Hispanic minister.

I will be talking to Oscar today (our Hispanic minister) and we will formulate some plan to reach out to this family.

Here are some things you can be praying for: Please pray for the children who were injured. Please pray for the adult drivers who were injured. Please pray for the Gomez family. Pray as well for our effort to minister to these families.

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April 18th 2005
Everybody’s Working For The Weekend?

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I used to fear Monday’s but not anymore. Our weekends have routinely become so busy that Monday is a welcome relief.

Where did the weekend go? What happened to sleeping in late? Where’s my leisurely consumed deluxe breakfast? Why can I not read the paper and enjoy the morning? The answers are found in the activities of our weekend.

Here was our line up for Saturday: Soccer Game - Auction Setup - PB Rehearsal - More Auction Setup - Softball Game - Auction - Auction Clean Up - Final Prep for Sunday

Here was our line up for Sunday: Set up for Children’s classes - route kids to venture groups - meet with worship leaders - preach - potluck - softball practice - birthday party - hunt down science fair project material - drop off to work on science fair project - return all computer items borrowed for auction - help build science fair project display

Granted there were several things going on this weekend that were not typical of our Saturday and Sunday. Some other “non typical” activity will take over next weekend and the next and the next.

I’m quite certain your weekend was just as busy as ours. Anything else you did?

I’m driving the kids to school this morning and people are calling in describing their weekends over the air. One caller was talking about their leisure weekend of playing in the backyard, being together and cooking on the grill. I don’t even know the caller but oh how I have extreme dislike for her!

We‚Äôve come a long way since Loverboy (I‚Äôll here it for this one) crooned ‚ÄúEverybody‚Äôs working for the weekend.‚Äù Right now I‚Äôm surviving the weekend to get to the work week! So the tune of this Loverboy (and I mean that in the most spiritual way possible) has changed to “Everybody’s working for the work week.”

Is it possible that we are working more on the weekend than the actual work week? And if so, why?

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