30 May 05 May We Keep In Memory

Memorial day weekend is something of an enigma. For many it’s about sleeping in, a family barbecue, serious water sports and spectacular savings. For others it’s a reminder of someone they loved who served on a field of battle or a theater of war.

I’m confused by the mixed messages. What is this day all about?

A four day weekend? A savings extravaganza? A Monday without having to go to work? A day to save an extra 10%-30% at Mattress Mart? An unbelievable deal on a refrigerator or a car?

Does the consumer side of our “American way” diminish or disrespect those who died giving us our “American way?”

I‚Äôm not saying it‚Äôs wrong to buy a mattress, a refrigerator or a new car on memorial day. I‚Äôm not saying it‚Äôs wrong to be excited about a four day weekend. Though, if I’m wrong about that I would easily understand.

I am saying even when our men and women are still on the front lines of battle there are those who forget. (I also find it curious how we celebrate week after week the sacrifice of our Savior and yet we still forget - manifested in our struggle to live day after day for our Savior.) We seem to have little problem instituting a memorial. The greater struggle seems to be in keeping centered around the memorial.

I’ve never served in the military and so I’m curious as to the attitudes of those who did serve - and are serving - on a day like today.

What is the proper way to honor the men and women of our military on a day such as this?